It seems like there are a lot of DACs that people report as having superior (if not far superior) performance via their balanced/XLR outputs versus their unbalanced/RCA outputs. As someone whose amp only accepts RCA input (Violectric V340) that is interested in getting into a R2R DAC, should I be concerned about not getting the "full experience" since I am limited to using the RCA out? Is this more prevalent in R2R DACs vs D/S? Perhaps I am seeing that because I am looking specifically at R2R DACs? Are there any R2R offerings that do not have this disparity between outputs?
There's a few reasons why the single ended and balanced outputs of a DAC will sound different, and it's often misunderstood.
1) Difference in signal level.
This alone means that you'll get a 6dB change in volume when going from balanced to single ended. And if volume is not properly compensated, people often perceive louder sources as 'better' regardless of whether they are or not. It's actually quite difficult to overcome this issue unless you have a very precise and repeatable way of adjusting volume correctly BEFORE playback resumes. (Just adjusting your pot after is not effective). So not a 'real' difference in the sound of the outputs, but rather a psychological effect caused by improper or delayed level matching during comparison.
2) Noise rejection benefits of balanced
Balanced interconnects have the advantage of inherent noise rejection, and so in a noisier environment balanced may provide better performance than single ended but this is nothing to do with the DAC itself
3) Single ended setups in equal scenarios produce more second order harmonics.
A fully balanced & differential system (the two are commonly confused but not the same thing) will not produce the same level of second order harmonics as a single ended one of equal design/quality. As a result, in some instances you may find that the single ended output sounds subjectively slightly 'warmer' or 'denser' in sound compared to balanced.
I should point out though, that there is often the claim that certain products are 'better optimised' for balanced or single ended and therefore the other output doesn't sound as good.
In the vast majority of cases this is simply not true, and in fact the single ended output is just using half of the balanced circuitry. There is no difference in output stage or design otherwise. It's literally the same thing just only one polarity.
SOME products that's not the case. The RME ADI-2 DAC (not Pro) for example where the DAC itself is single ended and then an inverting opamp just creates a second polarity to provide a balanced output, but the DAC itself isn't balanced. Or some Schiit products where the polarities are inverted/summed to produce the single ended output instead. Or a few select products where the single ended and balanced outputs have actually different/separate output stages. (Some newer SMSL DACs for example).
In these cases, there can be a difference in sound.