Zeppmeister
500+ Head-Fier
I have the Focal Clear ... and the Elan+. I love them both. Different experiences. I don't think I could say one was better than the other. Both are fantastic for what I need. When I want to feel the bass a bit more and really lock into the music, it's the E+. When I want more of a relaxed escape into the music, it's the Focal. Listening time is probably 50/50, but in any given week it might be 90/10 (and then 10/90 the next week).I gave for a few days my Avalon to a friend who is a loudspeaker and over ear headphone guy.
It blew him away. He is telling me that Avalon is much better than his Focal over ears.
I don't think he has Utopias though, but it gives you an idea how underappreciated quality IEMs are to other audiophiles.
But I think you're right that (quality) IEMs may not always get the respect they deserve.