I'm struggling to figure out what you could possibly continue on about. I believe you have just garrulously stated what we all already know. The only piece of "new" info there was the analogy with Apple products, which is in my mind, a very poor one. In my mind, what matters is the performance of the product. You stated yourself that because of the software their products actually perform as well or better than others. Isn't that what matters? Everyone knows that any moron can go out and buy components to build a computer. This moron has done it numerous times since roughly 1997. However, I remember that my first efforts performed relatively poorly compared to commercially built ones, even though I had bought all of the latest and best hardware. Why? Because hardware needs to be correctly chosen to work with other hardware, as well as the software. This is where Apple excels. They may not stick all of their money into the hardware, but they do spend a lot of time carefully selecting their components to work in harmony with one another and with their software. This is possible because they make only a few select computers, all made and sold by them. Contrast that to PC's, which are made by every manufacturer under the sun as well as by consumers - and couple that with Microsoft, which until just the last few releases has struggled to make an OS that won't crash every 10 minutes. (It should be noted that I am NOT an Apple fanboy, and don't own a single piece of Apple gear - although I do appreciate their attention to detail).
In comparison, the beats do not deliver the performance for the price. They don't even deliver 1/4 the performance that the price demands. As I said, I have no problem with Monster selling them to uninformed people - it is the consumers fault for not doing any research or testing alternatives. Still, I can't help but feel as if Monster is cheating their customers in a very big way.
Part of the hate for Beats may be to fit in with the audiophile crowd, but I can tell you that I am relatively new to the headphone world (not the audiophile world) - and I hated beats from the moment I heard them in a Best Buy, long before I ever even heard that opinion from someone else.