Well, the Rolex comparison doesn't really work in my opinion, simply because of the limits of CIEM manufacturing. With a Rolex, you can make them essentially out of any material you want, which is why they're allowed to be as durable as they are in their metal chassises. Because of a CIEM's extremely specific requirements (has to be custom-moulded, has to be relatively flexible enough to account for any
tiny fit errors, has to be biocompatible, etc.), it can only be made out of acrylic or silicone, so your expectations of durability should only go that far.
Now, you
can outsource your CIEM-making to guys like K2Craft and make sterling silver CIEMs as Soranik and itsfit have attempted in the past; severely limiting your order queue capacity, adding costs and adding complexity. Or, you can also do what FitEar do and make titanium CIEMs at a huge price premium. Then, there's also WAVAYA, but no one in their right mind would attempt or invest in making porcelain CIEMs unless you have the know-how that they do. So, at the end of the day, you're pretty much limited to acrylic and silicone. Perhaps Stealth Sonics will have the solution as
@Jackpot77 has shown, but as far as I know, their Stealth Kompozit material is owned by them. Unfortunately, that is the nature of the product and there are no workarounds around it for now.
Again, your expectations as to how durable a product should be only stops at what the product
can be. If a product can only be manufactured with certain materials, then it's unrealistic to expect any more from what that material can physically offer. That's not necessarily the fault of the manufacturer; it's just the best we humble humans can do right now. If your specific scenario makes drops and tumbles easy, then perhaps CIEMs just aren't for you.